Not everyone you love will stay. Not everyone you trust will be loyal. Some people only exist as examples of what to avoid. As lessons to learn. Learn your lesson and move on. Anyone can pretend to love you when the sun is shining.
It’s when the storm comes that you learn who truly cares for you. Don’t listen to what people say , watch what they do. Anyone can say “I love you”. It’s the simplest lie that can be said. Let them show you. Let them prove it. Stop listening to lies. Watch the action of the people who claim to care for you.
There are bigger goals in life than being a good woman to a man. Be a good woman to yourself. Stop putting yourself out there continuously when you know he’s not into you. Stop ignoring the signs that are right in front of you. Love yourself enough to walk away. It is better to be alone than to be with someone who doesn’t care about you. Who doesn’t love you. Not the way you want. Not the way you deserve. Understand that when someone truly loves you, they will make you a priority. He will always make time for you.
It is not everyone who wants you who deserves you. Know the difference. Stop trying to find someone to complete you. You are already complete. You may be cracked a little bit. You may have made mistakes you regret. But those make us who we are. Nobody can fix you. Stop trying to fill the void in your heart with people. Nobody can fill that void. Only you can. You are perfect just the way you are. Even with your flaws and all. Find someone who’ll compliment you. Someone who’ll bring out your best. Someone who wants to invest in you, listen to you and see you win. Stop wasting time on people who only remember you when they’re bored. You deserve better. You deserve to be loved the right way.
Stop falling in love with someone who only says the right things. Fall in love with someone who does the right things as well. Their actions have to match their words. Stop getting played. Move on. Be with someone who loves you back. Who truly loves you just the way you are. Someone who’s in love with you the way you’re in love with them. Stop trusting and caring about people you know don’t give a damn about you.
Respect yourself enough to move on. Walk away from toxic relationships. Stop killing yourself in the name of love. Stop giving your all to someone who’ll take every drop you have and walk away. And leave you brokenhearted. There’s a difference between being liked and being valued. Be valued. Stop steering yourself into situations that only help others float. Stop drowning yourself in the name of love.
BY: HONUTSE FALI DILLYS