by: michael eli dokosi/www.blakkpepper.com/ghana
Most men have used the ‘blue balls’ phenomenon to get laid by pleading with their female partners for semen release and can include cajoling, appealing, praying and even crying to evoke sympathy for penetration.
But what at all is this blue balls and can it kill as some men appear to imply?
Blue balls, known medically as epididymal hypertension (EH), is a condition that can affect people with male genitals. It causes pain and aching in the testicles after having an erection without an orgasm or released semen. When males are aroused, the blood vessels to the penis and testicles expand to allow a greater volume of blood flow. Over time, this blood causes the penis to expand and stiffen, leading to an erection. The testicles also increase in size, causing them to feel heavier.
Typically, this blood is released after orgasm or as a result of a decreased physical arousal. Too much blood may stay in the genital area of some people who become aroused for an extended period without a release or decrease of arousal. This can cause pain and discomfort. The testicles may even start to turn blue due to the excess blood and increase in blood pressure.
It symptoms include pain, discomfort, heaviness and aching.
How is blue balls treated?
The simplest, quickest remedy for blue balls is to ejaculate during an orgasm. One can achieve this through masturbation, oral sex, or protected sexual intercourse. After an orgasm, the pain will go away slowly. Another quick remedy is to become unaroused achieved through a variety of ways, including: taking a cold shower, thinking of something nonsexual, distracting yourself with music, working or doing another activity that keeps you busy.
Exercise may also help because it can move the blood flow away from your testicles to your muscles. Applying an ice pack or other cold substance to the area may also help by constricting the blood vessels and reducing additional blood flow to the area.
So there you have it, your male partner will not die from blue balls but he would go through pain if you engage in wet kissing, smooching without penetration access or oral sex.